Come Out And Play
According to an article in the Washington Post we're raising a generation of indoor kids. Is this really a surprise? Do kids today go outside for something other than parental or school-sanctioned organized activities?
Not to sound like an old codger ranting about the good 'ole days, but in my day our parents kicked us out of the house and made us just go play outside. "Playing" didn't mean joining a soccer league or taking a kayaking class or belonging to some crunchy nature group (although those all sound like cool things too). Playing was wandering through the woods, knocking around a baseball at "Sixto Lezcano Field" (otherwise known as the neighbor's backyard) or riding bikes everywhere. The only really organized games I remember playing were Kick the Can or Ghosts in the Graveyard. Do kids play those games anymore? Do kids even hang out with their neighbors anymore or knock on the door and ask if "Timmy can come out and play", or does Mom have to make a playdate? As an aside, whoever thought of the word "playdate" should really be punished. Severely.
I know that parents are worried about Stranger Danger, but kids are probably just as vulnerable online as they are hanging out in someone's backyard. Contrary to popular belief, there's not a Chester the Molester lurking behind every bush. And yeah, kids will get in trouble outside, but if you're lucky you won't find out about it until years later ;-)
I was at my nephew's graduation party the other weekend and my oldest brother was recounting some of his youthful exploits. Apparently, he was quite a rebel and deserved to get his ass kicked by more than a few adults. I think it was the first time my Mom had ever heard some of the stories. But even knowing what she knows now, I think she still would have made us go outside. And God bless her for it.
Posted by kris at June 19, 2007 11:29 AM
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| # June 19th, 2007 11:54 PM themandownthehall |
| Good golly, where do I start with this one? I guess here:
"As an aside, whoever thought of the word "playdate" should really be punished. Severely." That could be the single funniest line I have read on this site. If I was drinking something, I would have ruined my monitor. I agree wholeheartedly. It was probably some hippie in California or some metro-mom in Vermont. My mom kicked us out too and she added the warning "and I don't want to see you until dinner. And you better not be late". We lived in the woods next to our house. We would spend hours a day there. We would bike anywhere we wanted. The good old carefree days. Of course, back then you could build your own fort in a tree with some old wood and nails swiped from the basement. Now, if you do that, you get arrested for hurting the tree. Plus, why build it yourself when you can buy it and put it in your backyard? I guess I am a codger too. My friends and I did have the old Atari 800 (I had the 400) computers with all the cool Atari games (Star Commander ruled). Even with that, and the ability to play for hours on end, we didn't. I think that's what is different about today's kids. Kids today don't want to socialize outside. Heck, they don't want to socialize at all. They would rather zombie in front of the playstation for hours (my nephew is like that). Mom and dad don't care as long as they don't have to bother with them. The rare times that they socialize off the computer is at school planning to meet each other in Ultima Online or World of Warcraft after school (one of the best South Park's looked at that. See it here: http://video.glath.com/view/southpark.Make_Love,_Not_Warcraft ). My friends daughter is 6 years old and weighs 70 pounds. Yes, I'm serious. 70 pounds at last measure. Of course our friend makes excuses for her daughter, but there is only one reason she's a tub at 6. She won't go outside and play. Why? Because she's "L-A-Z-Y she ain't got no alibi, she's lazy, la la la la lazy!" Why play outside, when mr. x-box will entertain you on the couch? Now, we worried about the local "Chester the molester" but again, back then we had common sense. Chester either got beat up or arrested. Now he gets NAMBLA to help him sue people who look down on him or try to restrict his lifestyle. I have never played Ghosts in the Graveyard. How do you play that? My pack was a handful of snot nosed kids. We didn't do anything destructive but we did have a lot of fun at the expense of the neighbors. Our biggest exploit was house jumping. I was a gymnast at school, so my friends would boost me up. Once on the roof, I would find the master bedroom and jump up and down on the roof above it. Then I went to where they boosted me up, droped off the roof and ran like heck. Oh, did I mention it was about 2 am at the time? There was nothing funnier than watching some startled middle aged man or woman scrambling/stggering out of their house, half asleep in PJ's, wondering what the heck was crashing from the sky onto their house. Then they would hear us laughing up the street. You get funniest strings of profanity at 2 am. Of course, now I wouldn't jump the final 2 stairs on my porch, but kids think they are indestructable. My mom? She thought we were in our tent sleeping... Yeah, the good old days. |
| # June 20th, 2007 8:27 AM kris |
| Ghosts in the Graveyard: one kid is the ghost. He hides somewhere in the yard and the rest of the kids slowly walk through the yard shouting out "1 o'clock and the ghost ain't here. 2 o'clock and the ghost ain't here" until the ghost jumps out. The kids all scream "the ghost is here!!" as the ghost chases them and tries to tag them before they get home. All of the tagged kids now become ghosts too and the game goes on until all the kids are ghosts or until one kid reaches home alone.
I don't blame kids for not going outside. We were forced to go outside. If we hadn't been forced, we probably would have sat inside and watched more TV. Of course, the rotten thing today is that even if you do make your kids play outside, if other parents don't do the same thing your kids aren't going to have anyone to play with. Your story sounds like something my brothers would have done. Are all boy children so naughty? |
| # June 20th, 2007 11:18 PM themandownthehall |
| Yeah, pretty much. We start out as little hellions and go from there. Now my group was kind of wimpy. Never did much damaging or dangerous. Depsite its description, house jumping was a pretty safe prank. No one functions well when being yanked out of a sound sleep by a pounding on their roof. It took a while for them to get to the door. By the time they staggered out, we were long gone.
In our defense, we never did anything damaging. Eggs, toilet paper, grafiti or the like. Ours were more late night noise tactics or the occaisional snowball at a car. Only got caught once. Nailed a car with a snowball. Driver got out. I was the top sprinter at high school. Owned the junior high 100 meter record. The guy was a marathoner. Yeah, that was a bad day. Ghosts in the graveyard sounds fun. I'll have to teach it to my kids for their daycamp. You may be right on our staying inside. Fortunately, our parents wanted us out of their hair as much as they wanted us outside, so out we went. Now, I grew up in upper-middle class Detroit surburbia. Most subdivisions had man made lakes, side walks and lots of low use pavement. You can find an awful lot of fun things to do in that environment. Raft tag in the lake was our daily ritual in the summer (skating in the winter). Kids don't know what they missed. Thank you for this post. I still chuckle about the inventor of play dates needing punishment. Remebering the good old glory days is fun. Ironically and I guess fittingly, my jeans are relaxed fit Faded Glory brand. :) |
| # June 21st, 2007 6:54 AM BVBigBro |
| Don't forget Boot Camp, another game that we played, and also the game where you got spun around in th air by your arms, got let go and then when you stopped rolling on the ground you had to act like a particular animal; a strange game, but we used to play it in the front yard all the time. |
| # June 21st, 2007 8:41 AM kris |
| I loved Boot Camp. You were an excellent drill sargeant, BV. |
| # June 21st, 2007 11:23 AM KVBigSis |
| Your older brothers and sisters called "Ghost in the Graveyard" "1:00 the Ghost Game." Being very literal sorts, our favorite game was "The Game Around the Block." Due to the lack of cross streets, this was actually the game around three blocks, and it was very simple. Kids were divided into teams of 2 (and there could be as many as 20 kids playing). Goal was the front steps of our house. One team was It. If either member of your team made it to goal without being tagged, both of you got to go out for the next round. The team that was It left one of their members right on the front steps, so it took some effort to get in. If both members of your team were tagged, you joined the It team. The game could last all day. There were two small woods in the 3-block area, and I can remember running through the brush, legs scratched raw. That was fun! |
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